true love?

So you fall in love, I mean we all fall in love some time in our lives. And then the world suddenly looks different, the food tastes better even a bit of rain is OK. You can be riding your bike and some stupid taxi driver would cut you off, but that is OK! Because you are in love and everything really only matters when you are together. You just want to curl up in your bed and sleep all day, then you decide to get married and have a kid! And this is again one of the most wonderful things that can happen to you, because when you see your child's face for the first time. You are speechless, at the same time you are proud and afraid. Because suddenly you are not alone any more, there is now someone more important than you in your life that you need to take care of. But through all this time, you still wonder if she is the one? The woman in your life, the one that has given birth to your child. Is she really the one? And then you live together and share everything, and one day you wake up and you just know that you are happy. Things are good, you are happy and content. Life is going in the right direction, and when you do feel blue or when life throws you a curb ball you always have each other. And that is the day you realize that she really is the one, or maybe you are the one. It is a team work that is good for all of you, you know this is what life is really about. But...it doesn't always work out like that? Even when things seem to be going the right way something that might not seem too important at first can easily blow up in your face! And then you don't know where you are left, suddenly to find yourself without a house, money,job! Everything gone with the wind in the blink of an eye! What have you got after that? You have your family and your close friends. It is at times like these that you know where you really are in life. Thank God, I am happy and content and still in love with my woman after 10 years and 3 kids, but a close friend of mine recently had a incident that blew up in his face! I feel so sorry for him and wish there was something I could do...